- About Us
- Supporting Survivors
- Engaging the Community
- Support Wellspring
We might think that the best place for kids to learn is in a classroom. But for youth, and for all of us, sometimes our best lessons come when we least expect it. Anders Mattson, the Director of Instruction at Saratoga National Golf Academy, certainly teaches youth about how to swing a golf club… but also teaches about social responsibility. Click here for more from Anders.
At Wellspring, we understand the powerful influence a coach has on a young athlete. That’s why we’re bring Coaching Boys into Men® (CBIM) to schools in Saratoga and Washington Counties, at no cost to the school. CBIM is an evidence based curriculum that’s been used across the country and globally that helps coaches incorporate a leadership component into their work with youth so their athletes build respectful and non-violent relationships. Men– fathers, uncles, teachers, and coaches — have an important and necessary role to play in ending violence against women and children. Coaching Boys into Men® has a growing global community of coaches and athletes helping to prevent domestic violence and relationship abuse.
If you are interested in learning more about Coaching Boys into Men® or bringing it to your school, or other athletics program, contact Wellspring. We’re committed to providing our community partners the tools so that together we can create the social change needed to end relationship and sexual abuse.
The Inn at Saratoga will be raising money for Wellspring during our monthly fundraising night.
20% of the evenings total restaurant and tavern sales will be donated to this incredible organization who are fighting to end relationship and sexual violence in Saratoga County.
Come in for dinner, drinks, raffles and live music by Drank The Gold!
We look forward to seeing you and donating to this worthy cause!
Find more at the Facebook event: https://www.facebook.com/events/1930828827175788/
Recently I was speaking with the Reverend Joe Cleveland of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Saratoga Springs about domestic violence. His church has long supported the work of Wellspring, because our mission connects so well with the beliefs that underlie their faith. Reverend Cleveland explains that his congregation is, “committed to love, compassion and justice.” Click here for more about why his church cares… and why he personally is passionately committed to ending domestic violence.
I love sitting in the sanctuary of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation and looking at the beautiful quilt behind the altar (a small section of it shown in the picture above). I often think if we all allowed our every action to be guided by love, truth, tolerance, service, and compassion, how much better this world would be.
I just had the pleasure of speaking with two dear friends, Jesse and
Antoinette Jackson (Jesse on-air, but as always Antoinette and I continued the conversation long after the cameras stopped rolling.) Look TV has long been a champion and partner in our efforts to increase awareness about relationship and sexual abuse.
So Jesse and I were talking about the upcoming Allstate Purple Purse Challenge. At Wellspring we’ve set a really big goal … leading Saratoga County to #1 in the nation during the month-long fundraising challenge, to show that our whole community is committed to the vision of ending relationship and sexual abuse.
I’ve gotta say, our friends at Look TV are just as excited as we are about the possibilities. Watch the interview here, to learn more about Allstate’s Purple Purse Challenge… and what you can do to help.
Just thinking of the word do you exhale, smile a bit and feel calmer? I do. Home (no matter how bustling or busy) is a place you are loved, surrounded by family, and where you can be relaxed and comfortable. But in a home where there’s domestic violence, sometimes the home is loving and then can, in an instant, change to a place with fear. So the people living there are never fully relaxed. At Wellspring, survivors often describe, “always feeling like I’m walking on eggshells.” Charles Wait Jr. knows that, “when violence enters the home, people need safe spaces… and Wellspring offers a safe place to go.” Click here for more about why he supports Wellspring’s work and the Purple Purse Challenge.
Belmonte Builders knows a thing or two about building homes from the foundation to the roof shingles. Lindsey Belmonte supports Wellspring’s work because like Belmonte Builders we help create, “safe homes in safe communities”. Click here for more from Lindsey.
As a realtor, Karen Charbonneau of Miranda Realty certainly knows the importance of a home. But her reason for supporting Wellspring and the Purple Purse Challenge is far deeper and more personal. As a teenager, she saw children growing up in homes with domestic violence and she remembers, “the fear in the faces of children in homes with domestic violence.” As she talks about it, it’s clear that these years later she still remembers those faces, and cares about this issue because she too wants a community where no child experiences that fear…especially at home. Click here for more from Karen.
When an individual or a family needs to leave home because it’s not safe, Wellspring can help. Last year alone we provided 2,865 bed nights of safe slumber for adults and children fleeing abuse. Shelter isn’t our only housing option though. Our NewView Housing program provides rent subsidized apartments throughout Saratoga County for domestic violence survivors. Last year we provided apartments for 31 families (with 45 children) so they could be safe (that’s 17,000 nights of safe sleep in a violence-free home). In addition to the rent subsidy we provide weekly in-home support services to help the family remain safe, heal, and achieve employment of financial goals so they can remain abuse-free and be self-sufficient.
Because I spend so much time talking to the public about Wellspring, people often think of me when they think of the agency. But I’m only a very small part of Wellspring. The agency has 19 dedicated employees who daily carry out our mission to support survivors and engage the community to end relationship and sexual abuse. They quietly and humbly provide the caring and knowledgeable support that helps survivors achieve safety, heal from trauma and transcend the abuse. We also have a board of directors that focuses on long range goals so Wellspring will continue to meet the needs of our community. And we have dedicated volunteers and interns who help in many different ways: fostering pets, providing financial literacy training, assisting with office work, and helping with fundraisers (and we’ve got a bunch of those coming up in October!)
Today two of our advocates are my guest bloggers, sharing their thoughts on the work they do and how your support enables them to make a difference. They coordinate one of our October fundraisers each year as a way to connect with you. Enough from me, their words are way more meaningful…
As Wellspring advocates, we work directly with people experiencing domestic or sexual abuse. We assist clients through a variety of challenges; advocates may find themselves linking clients to important resources that may pay for costly medications and services their insurance do not cover, or working with clients to process their experience and the reactions associated with the trauma they have undergone. We may accompany clients to police stations or to the hospital for an exam. If clients choose to report and their case goes to prosecution, we will accompany the victim through any stage of the process and offer emotional support. We also offer assistance and support to family members or friends of a victim to help them process their feelings and to help them best support their loved one. Every day we work hard to ensure that victims feel heard and supported, and that they are given all of the information they need in order to make informed decisions. Additionally, we work to engage the community to end relationship and sexual abuse. Throughout the year, we present information about the dynamics of dating violence, consent, and healthy relationships to over 5,000 high schools students throughout the county. Additionally, we work with Skidmore students on social change initiatives.
… but she’s holding it for the same reason.
Did you watch the Emmy Awards last night? Arguably the most powerful acceptance speech was delivered by Nicole Kidman as she accepted the award for outstanding actress in a limited series or movie. It’s her first Emmy, but her words will linger in Emmy history, “… sometimes when you’re acting, you get a chance to bring a bigger message… We shone a light on domestic abuse.”
She accepted the award for her role in Big Little Lies, where she played a character who was in an abusive relationship. She acknowledged how difficult it was to play this role. I applaud Kidman for using her moment of recognition to open up a conversation about the “complicated, insidious disease” of domestic violence. The first step to ending relationship abuse is to talk about it so we’re able to recognize it, understand it, and help victims toward the resources they need to become survivors.
And we’ve got an opportunity to start that conversation right here in Saratoga County. On Sunday, October 15th at 4 pm at Northshire Books in Saratoga Springs, we’re having an open community discussion about Big Little Lies. It’s like a one time book club. If you missed a previous blog post, where Robin Dalton talked about Big Little Lies and the work Wellspring does, you can see it here. Thanks Nicole… and thanks Robin, for inspiring us to start the conversation. We all know that when women start talking about what really matters, positive change happens. So whether you’ve read the book or watched the series, join us… there will be women -and men- there who care about this issue too. Let’s start to conversation, and then let’s work together to end relationship and sexual abuse.
If you- or your dog- missed yesterday’s blog post, it was an invitation to join us for the 7th Annual Pooch Parade. It’s a fun event that supports a very serious need, the often forgotten victims of domestic violence, our pets. Senator Jim Tedisco has long been a champion for those whose voices aren’t heard, especially for children and for animals. For decades he has represented us advocating for fiscal accountability and state government reform…and his commitment to protecting vulnerable children and animals has always been central to his public services. It’s been a primary message in his campaign promises, ‘Realizing that animal cruelty is a bridge crime and those who abuse animals often go on to hurt people, Tedisco was the driving force behind passage of the landmark Buster’s Law to protect our pets by making animal cruelty a felony. In 2011, Tedisco again made history by creating the first-ever NYS Animal Advocacy Day to give voice to all members of our families.’
Click here to hear why he supports the work of Wellspring and other agencies like ours that provide a vital link to the safety for survivors of abuse.